Kate:
Winners and losers? Personally I feel it a shame to reduce it to that level of concept.
One can continue to aspire, whilst appreciating the waystops (whether you want to brand that "settling" or not, I'm not sure).Was I really talking of "ignoring" the status of things, or rather judging them by a different set of standards?I'm glad the positive thinking is helping, though
IMHO we are all on a journey. It's nice to help one another on it.
Winners and losers? Personally I feel it a shame to reduce it to that level of concept.
One can continue to aspire, whilst appreciating the waystops (whether you want to brand that "settling" or not, I'm not sure).Was I really talking of "ignoring" the status of things, or rather judging them by a different set of standards?I'm glad the positive thinking is helping, though

IMHO we are all on a journey. It's nice to help one another on it.