OH yes Lee exactly!
I think this is the type of thinking that is reponsible for people "settled" for second or third or100th best instead of holding out for THE best.
I like this attitude, losers LET it happen and winners MAKE it happen! We aren't responsible for what others do or think but we are responsible only for how we choose to respond.LT;If you accept who you are, and that you are neither good or bad, you just are - moment based.
Au contrair, we all have some kind of thought base of which we react in the moment, I doubt that it can be helped although we can choose not to see it. For me if it's not worth my effort, I can ignore it therefore thinking it's neither good or bad but it's still self based, and not reality. Well I'm full of this positive thinking stuff it's been a help to me in overcoming the legacy of my family's past.Kate