Well, at least you found out the answer to your question Stilla!

When I was an MS There were times that I got the breast rub on the arm Stilla.  I was a bit naive when I was a Dub, because I would think that there was a message...and then I would think...  nahhhh!, no way! and I would put it out of my mind.  Now that I look back on it...

exjdub

 

From the sister's viewpoint, I had several married brothers flirt with me, roaming hands.  I have already told about the "finding out how far back your finger will bend" comment.  I guess it works both ways.

Blondie

When I was pioneering we had a ministerial servant that was constantly making crude comments to the "virgins" in the congregation.  Eventually some of the sisters turned him in, but about a year and a half later he was still made an elder.  When I asked about it, I was told that they didn't have any choice because there weren't enough elders to do all the work in the congregation.

Ciara

My friend is a young pre 30's bethel elder. While at a brothers house their daughter came out of the shower in only a robe and came down to say hi while her parents where in the kitchen fixing snacks. He was saying the hardest part of being young and at bethel is the overtness of YOUNG sisters throwning themselves at you. Amazing considering in the "world" most women would never think of marring a guy in the USA that makes 100 bucks A MONTH!

 the qestion is WHY do men in high positons this bad things, they now it is forbidden and bibel say it is very heavy siin.

That is my whole point -- you are correct they should not abuse their positions --but sometimes when a member of the opposite sex flirts and touches you it really is difficult not to be tempted -we are after all only human. I posted the topic  because I was interested in how much it goes on in "The Truth" Gods one and  only organization

I don't know, the K.H.'s pretty much sucked all the naughty thoughts right out of your head. It was so sufficating in those places. I will remember one person who kinda flirted with me. Scott Majors, he was so nice and ALL the girls were ga-ga over him. He wanted to be a chef. His brother was d/f and I could tell it embarassed him. My mother wasn't well thought of during that time. An I think, we felt comfortable around eachother b/c of the common ground. I often wonder, what happened to him. Did he make his exit out of the org or did it suck him back in?

He helped me cook dinner and look after my baby brother at the time. It was a mutual warm feeling. I will always remember his kindness, during one of the most difficult times. My sisters will remember the tobogan ride and crash. Tay "Chicken Bottom".

I know the girls at the time threw themselves whole heartedly at him. One girl bursted into tears wondering how she could catch his eye.  It was nuts.

X.