Hello Tina,As Jan put her daughter into the public domain - you put your professional therepist status in the public domain. I put my background in the same public domain. In fact, many of us have here.To call a poster's background into the picture on a totally unrelated subject matter is still questionable. Look at Tally's response to COMF for doing the exact same thing - four long threads worth. And Tally was hugged repeatedly, even by you.As a professional therepist, you know there's hot points for victims/survivors. COMF hit Tally's. You seemingly went for Jan's, as the other women did to me. Since you're not here as a professional therepist, it would seem better for you to not make posts where you wonder and guess at a person's mental health and/or stability.Take the posts on face value, in other words.
Maybe it was bad taste on Jang's part to bring it to the fore publicly.
Are you suggesting, whether as a professional therepist, or as a compassionate person, that a victim/survivor or their family should keep quiet? On this forum, masturbation, *fisting*, homosexuality, beastiality, rape, sports, nationality and all things in-between have been discussed. Are you suggesting that it's bad taste to speak of real - or imagined - abuse memories?If it bothered her,it shows she lacks proper boundaries.
It shows that you're saying you're not here as a therepist - but lapse into professional therepist's words at your whim. It does not show that she lacks proper boundaries, imho. If she screamed and tried to rip your head off, or went into a deep depression for weeks, or hurt other persons - then lack of proper boundaries would be suspect.But to be *bothered* (exact meaning would be in the grey area) would seem to mean that she's human. It would seem that you, by your initial response to her post were the one lacking proper boundaries, for it seemed to bother you quite a bit.Whatever happened to live & let live for opinions and posts on an open forum?waiting