((((OFC)))I see this as positive. You broke through to her!!! (albeit she tried to hide her emotions)You did a good thing, and she knows it...Yes the echo of dubism was there, but she broke with it in some sense.I hope you will continue to show disregard for the "authority" of the gb, and be there for mom....I get the feeling she will come around...You cant go wrong by being loving....even if it means taking a bruise in the attempt...Ya did good cat...