There is a Christian lady who lives near me who has been really good to me. She never preaches to me but she has always been there for me even when I was active. When I had my last baby and was sick for a few weeks she would come every day and help me in the home and help care for my other 2 children and cook meals and everything .... not one of the people in my congregation came to help even though they were in my street witnessing. This is what made me realize there was something really wrong. This Christian lady still helps me and has helped me meet other ladies in my area and has taken me to her ceramics club and helped me get a new life. I have known this lady for 5 years now and she is just what I believe a real Christian should be.