Hello Mulan,
I have visited a few other ex JW boards and think they are just insane, and more importantly almost pornographic. I know I am a bit of a prude, but someone who has been a religious nut her whole life, is not going to respond well to that kind of stuff. Namely me.
I agree with you that this board is for people like you and others leaving the Wt but there is a place for different types of exJW boards. The other type you describe would surely intimidate a doubting JW but they provide a form of support for others with their unique needs. Actually I wish they could realize this and we could all work together instead of feeling at odds. Steve