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patio34WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!


I was tempted to write the WTBS today. I'm reading a loaned copy (from my younger sister, 'Waiting') of Ray Franz's "In Search of Christian Freedom." It is a masterful point-by-point refutation of the WTS doctrine. And who would be in a better position to do it, than an ex-GB member?

What I was tempted to write the Borg was something like 'boy, did you make a HUGE mistake in disfellowshipping that guy!' Talk about knowing where the skeletons are hidden!
(But I wouldn't waste the paper or stamp on a letter I know wouldn't get past the front desk and waste basket.)

His gentle rationale and use of the Bible scriptures is so clear in demonstrating the errors the Borg have made regarding door-to-door, blood transfusions, clerical hierarchy, legalism, etc. It's 'just what the doctor ordered!' And I'm only half-way through.

Not that I haven't been equally impressed with the writings of ones on the Net such as AlanF. But I'm still discovering every day. It's only been since March of this year that i 'left.'

Pat

"All religions die of the same disease--that of being found out."
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TRRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
Hi Pat,

Isn't it amazing the things we can research/write/find out when our consciences are free to do so?

I read Ray's books also. I understand there is a third edition of C.O.C. Gonna hafta read it again!

TR

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MacHisloppRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
Hi Pat,

sometimes the "light gets brighter"
for others too, and as a result they "can see
LIGHT"!

Nice to have your thoughts,
Agape, J.C. MacHislopp
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FarkelRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
Wait until you get to the chapter on the Misue of Disfellowshiping. If that won't make you foam-at-the mouth then you are not sufficiently motiviated.

Look at that picture of that 80-90+ plus old guy (Percy, something) I've loaned my copy out, so I cannot reference it right now. Here's a guy with what? fifty years of service to the Corp.? He's DFd for questioning the "generation" issue, which the society quietly changed later. He DIED DF and he had it RIGHT to begin with.

Who are these assholes who screw up people's lives, and why will not the R&F stop these assholes from hurting people any longer?

I don't know. I'm doin' MY best!

Farkel
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LostMyReligionRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
Hi Pat!

It's me, your email pen-pal from the other half of that big state out west somewhere. I decided to give this posting thing another try.

I heartily agree with you on the value of Ray Franz' books. I ended up reading "Christian Freedom" first and then COC. They aare both exposes ( can't make an accent for that word) of the first degree as far as I am concerned. Especially ISOCF is a masterpiece of research and reasoning, and enabled me to let go of the lingering fears of "what if they could be right" about this or that issue, and feel the full weight of indignation of things like disfellowshipping which I had no real personal experience with, never having had a close friend or relative suffer it.

I agree that they made a huge mistake DFing RF not only because he knows where the skeletons are, but because his writing style was so much more readable than 90% of the standard WT output. They should have let him write a lot more. I had no trouble reading the hundreds of pages in his 2 books, but I can barely make it through 3 or 4 pages of the WT before numbness sets in. Of course the object of the subject matter may have something to do with that.

Looking forward to conversational interchange with you here, and in my email box!

LMR
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hopefulRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
I enjoyed Ray's books too. Jang leant me hers and told me to read the Christian Freedom Book first, and then to read the Crisis book. I am glad she did that because I think I would have had a breakdown if I had read the Crisis book first. I could not believe what I had got myself into and I was so glad to be out of it.

What a cruel, consciousless, manipulative and hateful organization it really is and what it has done to so many people. I am not suprised really to see how angry they are on these boards and how they treat each other sometimes. They are only doing what they have been trained to do like my ex-husband.

hopeful
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FrancoisRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
Ray has really performed a great public service with his books. It takes time for society to make changes in itself, but it does happen, and perhaps the end really is near for the Evil Empire. Its true, too, that the squeaky wheel gets the grease. When enough people make enough noise, the WTBTS will slouch into its own self-imposed end.

And something else. I met Ray when he moved to Winston, GA and was in the end stages of completing his home there. Worked with he and a few friends putting together some meetings of ex-JWs and other interested parties. The first meeting was held over in Alabama. Anyway, I had a chance to deal with Ray on a close personal basis for a few years back in the late eighties, and the point I want to make is that he is such a mild-mannered, gentle, honest, spiritually oriented and motivated guy, its hard to believe that the Borg did not listen to him when they had the chance.

It's obvious that Ray doesn't have a selfish bone in his body. And it would be hard to believe that he would ever be motivated to seek personal promotion or "glory" for himself or for his ideas. And yet the bozos at Borg headquarters allowed their own selfishness, their own ambition, their own hard-heartedness to allow this gem of a guy, endowed with no small intellect, to escape them. When they lost the services of Ray Franz, they lost the last, best, hope of turning around and sinning no more.

Think about it. Where would the JWs be today if they had sincerely adopted Ray's interpretations into the body of their beliefs; if they had ceased defending the indefensible, if they - in short - had gotten real and acknowledged the validity of the concerns of its members? It's strange to think about it in these terms, but the organization of Jehovah's Witnesses could have evolved into quite an attractive bunch. But they didn't, of course. It's hard to get people who think they speak for God to acknowledge the validity someone else's viewpoint. And its gonna cost 'em. Big.

Just musing.

Francois
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patio34Re: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
It's good to hear from y'all about this. It was much better than writing to the Borg.

TR and Mac, the 'light is getting brighter' now that we're free to look for it!

Farkel, just started the disfellowshipping chapter (gr-r-r-r). And that was pathetic what they did to that elderly man--heartless.

The chapter on blood was astounding. How could the WTBS dupe so many people into risking their lives? I just hope none of my grandchildren get put at risk over this.

LostMyReligion, I keep reading these kinds of books because of wanting to be satisfied it's right to leave. Although I wish I could pull my 2 sons out! Need patience, huh? It's so nice to have you posting on here!

Hopeful, I agree the books should be read in the order you said. Because the ISOCF seems to have more doctrine rebuttal and CofC has more of the internal workings. It does get one's ire up! The only problem is wanting to share it with JWs--which will lead to df'g. He has a point about that too in the chapter on df'g. How cleverly the WTS refuses to defend its policies on the basis of 'apostasy' when Jesus, Jehovah, and the early Christians did just the opposite.

Francoise, thanks for the info about meeting Ray Franz. His personality certainly comes thru in the books too. It's as with evolution, those species that didn't adapt go into extinction. It seems that will be the outcome for the Borg.

Pat
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JangRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
I had the pleasure of meeting Ray and Cynthia too when I was in Atlanta in Nov 1986. My cousin and I drove over to see him and she was so impressed by his humility and love and their hospitality.

They had just moved into their home out of the van at that time.

JanG
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dedalusRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
Farkel, just started the disfellowshipping chapter (gr-r-r-r). And that was pathetic what they did to that elderly man--heartless.

"Now, now, Patio34 -- maybe we don't know the whole story. Perhaps the man was selling drugs to the kiddies in the congregation, and the generation excuse was a smokescreen. Or perhaps he was holding after-service orgies in the back of the Kingdom Hall. The point is, we should never question decisions made by elders, because we don't have the whole story."

Don't you get sick of hearing that? Because if you haven't, Patio34, you will. I recently told my JW father about an elder who was deleted for accepting a non-Witness donation for his blind, deaf, and mentally handicapped son. "Well, we don't have the whole story," he said. Then I told him about a sister I knew who was reproved in the 80's because she was raped and didn't scream. "Well, I don't know her personally, and even so, I wouldn't know the full facts of what happened there." It's going to get frustrating for you if you try to share what you're learning with other Witnesses.

Personally, I find that passive, do-nothing stance repulsive ... but then again, I once said the same thing myself when confronted with judicial atrocities.

Dedalus
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Had EnoughRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
Hi all:

I have to say that reading Ray CofC book was the true turning point for me too!

I had to read it in spurts though as it would get me so upset and riled, I had to keep putting it down and pace or go do something else for awhile. Someone said yesterday (sf?) that finding these things out was like getting a blow to the stomach and not able to get your breath. This was what I, and many of you here too, had based my whole life on, had trusted with all my heart to be the only way to serve God and I was never going to grow old...HA!

Many times, people who have never been a JW, can't understand why we hang on here and don't just let go and forget about the WTS altogether.

If only they could feel what we feel. We were so convinced, so manipulated into absolutely believing all we were told about prophecies, the brotherly love, the preaching work being done, the growth proving God's direction and spirit, the insight into the scriptures, all identifying us as being the one blessed religion, and then the carrot of paradise on earth being dangled in front of us to spur us on to do more.

The GB was painted as this pure, holy, humble, servant of God dedicated to doing God's will in helping us poor lowly sheep. What an eye-opener finding out the details of the real "truth" about the dirty skeletons, the underhandedness, the "hide the truth so our image is squeeky-clean" manipulations.

YES....we have every right to be angry and "froth at the mouth", and feel hurt, disappointed, fearful for our JW relatives and friends. We want the truth to be known to all..the REAL TRUTH.

This control over peoples' lives has to stop. These books, and others like it, are a priceless weapon in destroying the pristine, pretty picture the WTS wants to paint of itself.

These books, along with all the info coming out on the web, and soon in the media, have got to have a domino effect on stirring many more into action...either of leaving or causing enough disruption to result in drastic changes being made.

I hope we see it in our lifetime. I feel so grateful to Ray in getting the ball rolling by exposing the truth to us. I know ones who have talked to Ray recently, and who also say he is such a kind, humble, unassuming, meek man who was duped like us, but has used his knowledge to help so many others break free of their chains.

Had Enough
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JTRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
lost my religion says


I had no trouble reading the hundreds of pages in his 2 books, but I can barely make it through 3 or 4 pages of the WT before numbness sets in.

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this is funny- great point
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JTRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
had enough saysMany times, people who have never been a JW, can't understand why we hang on here and don't just let go and forget about the WTS altogether.

If only they could feel what we feel. We were so convinced, so manipulated into absolutely believing all we were told about prophecies, the brotherly love, the preaching work being done, the growth proving God's direction and spirit, the insight into the scriptures, all identifying us as being the one blessed religion, and then the carrot of paradise on earth being dangled in front of us to spur us on to do more.

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right on time- so true so true indeed
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wannahelpRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
Hi JT:

It's funny that you mention that non JW's cannot understand why you hang on, and don't even see it..

I've been quietly trying to show my JW friend for quite some time now the real "truth".. At times, I think he has seen glimpese of it, but then he appears to put his head back in the sand like the preverbial ostrich.. It's very frustrating to me, but I know that I have to be patient with him..

I cannot comprehend, although I wish I could, exactly how he, or anyone else in his or your position, could feel once they begin to question the very thing they have devoted their life to.. In his case, he was born into the cult, so he's never known anything else..

Interesting comment, and yeah, since I've never been a JW, all I can do is at best watch him fall apart and help pick up the pieces if and when he comes to the realization that he's been living a lie...

Such trama, I feel for you all, even if I never will be able to fully sympathize with you...
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MacHisloppRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
Hello everyone,


to Patio 34,

It is nice to find out , that this subject elates so many good observations:

How cleverly the WTS refuses to defend its policies on the basis of 'apostasy' when Jesus, Jehovah, and the early Christians did just the opposite. "

to Francoise:

"….if they had ceased defending the indefensible, if they - in short - had gotten real and acknowledged the validity of the concerns of its members? "

Very good, logical and true point.

to Farkel:

"He's DFd for questioning the "generation" issue, which the society quietly changed later. He DIED DF and he had it RIGHT to begin with. "

Very, very sad. Someone has to pay for all this …cruel attitude!

to Dedalus:

"Well, I don't know her personally, and even so, I wouldn't know the full facts of what happened there." It's going to get frustrating for you if you try to share what you're learning with other Witnesses. Personally, I find that passive, do-nothing stance repulsive ..."

I have the same feeling. Btw , CO and DO take very often that attitude…the easy way out!!
Not Christian…but coward!


to HadEnough:

"This control over peoples' lives has to stop. These books, and others like it, are a priceless weapon in destroying the pristine, pretty picture the WTS wants to paint of itself.
These books, along with all the info coming out on the web, and soon in the media, have got to have a domino effect on stirring many more into action...either of leaving or causing enough disruption to result in drastic changes being made."

I do agree with you and hope as you wrote that:

"....result in drastic changes being made."

Agape, J.C. MacHislopp
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patio34Re: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
Dedalus, That is SO true "well, you don't know the whole story." That's so ironic, because THAT'S a condemnatory statement in and of itself. In a REAL court of law, the whole story is known, and people in general can know that justtice was done. Not so in secret, kangaroo-court proceedings with no defense lawyer. Just judge jury and executioner in some kind of star-chamber trial.

Ray Franz brings out in his ISOCF that so many of the Bible judicial proceedings were public. I don't know all of the points right now.

He even brings out instances where very elderly ones have been df'd--one man was on his deathbed! He asks, how can a dying man contaminate the congregation. Ray was making the point that the WTBS's stance that disgruntled ones should just leave quietly, and how there's no way to do that, as the shepherd are so tenacious to hunt ones down to df them.

HadEnough, I think the above ranting in my post demonstrates I should follow your example and read a bit at a time, because of getting so enraged.

I think why we hang together is because we have a shared trauma, akin to the Jews in Germany (granted, not as horrible) and veterans of wars. They can't let it go either. We understand each other where others can't if they haven't experienced it.

Thanks for all your replies.

Pat

P. S. A very important thing to remember "Don't squat with your spurs on."
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FarkelRe: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
Dedalus,

It's nice to have you with us, again. :)

: "Well, we don't have the whole story," he said.

Translation: "Until we get the WATCHTOWER spin on the matter, we won't know how they want us to think."

(Think about what I just said above. Think about that seriously.)

Farkel
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patio34Re: WTBS Made a Huge Mistake!
Hi Farkel,

I can't believe how your statement resonated in me! I used to think that very thing (blush!) when I'd read about a scientific discovery that undermined the Bible and supported evolution. I'd think 'well, I'll wait until the WT does an article on it.'

Most of the time in the past 5 or so years, they haven't been doing as much on it.

Didn't even realize that's what I did!

Pat

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