Sounds like you have done alot of healing since you left...
Wasn't there a time when you were angry? ..feeling ripped off? etc...
I think the goal for me when I left J.W.'s was to eventually work through all those emotions that I felt..like anger, hurt, abandonment, ..grieving etc.... AND THEN...get to where you are..
Acceptance of who I am now.. and the ability to forge ahead in my own path, making the deicision I need to make for me and my family.
I don't know if you'll get much flack from your topic...It all sounded like a progressive posting to me..
I'd say..Go and be free, my friend..but your post tells me you already have done that.
sincerely
Special k