As I was reading her letter, I also could not help but remember when you told me she went to the Memorial and how she felt, how she left in tears. She really did try to believe it was the truth. I have had similar feelings but when I thought of going back, I could see the way I would feel that people were judging me, people I didn't know, didn't know why I was df'd......just that a "df'd" person was in their midst. Tell L----- she wrote a great letter......its a keeper. I wish her luck (couldn't have said that a few years ago!)