Hey Cruzenheart'
You said..
"I enjoyed being able to talk about anything with them without feeling like I had to direct their beliefs in any particular way. No guilt, no pressure, not anxiety"
This gives me hope! Hope that more parents,like yourself, will allow their children a free mind.
A free mind is required to explore our inner thoughts and emotions.
A free mind is needed to live in conjuction with who we are..
A free mind (in this instance) is needed to express grief and pain of loss of someone who has been affecting them in a positive way..but is now, not there anymore.
Emotions are to be expressed and for your kids, you helped them express these in a kind, gentle and appropriate way.
You made a safe haven for them to release their pain
A truly special mom you are.
all my best
Special K