Good post! I have often wondered about compliance even though I fully understand the need people have to "fit in".Personally I have long been a non-compliant sort of girl and though it wins me no friends in some quarters it has saved me from many a mistake, including joining the oh-so-controlling cult a.k.a. The Watchtower. I knew I could never join such an organization. I always thoroughly assess a rule before I decide whether or not I will adhere to it. I saw their rules as bullshit from a mile away, all thanks to my I'll-be-the-judge-of-whether-that-should-be-a-rule-for-me attitude.
Remember, the favorite word of the non-conformist is "why". Use it freely.Julie
Remember, the favorite word of the non-conformist is "why". Use it freely.Julie