Another area we have problems with when we exit is findoug our feet as adults in
the world around us. Thes are some guidlines on what to work towards.

Characteristics of True Adulthood

1.Accepts criticism gratefully. Being honestly glad for an opportunity to improve

2.Does not indulge in self-pity. Has begun to feel the laws of compensation
operating in all life.

3.Does not expect special consideration from anyone.

4.Controls temper.

5.Meets emergencies with poise.

6.feelings are not easily hurt.

7.Accepts the responsibility of own acts without trying to "alibi'.

8.Has outgrown the all or nothing stage. Recognizes that no person or situation is
wholly good or wholly bad. And begins to appreciate the golden rule.

9.Is not impatient at reasonable delays

10.Have learned they are not the arbiter of the universe and that must often adjust
to other people and their convenience

11.Is a good loser can endure defeat and disappointment without whining or
complaining.

12.Does worry unduly about things he cannot help.

13.Is not given to boasting or "showing off" in socially unacceptable ways.

14.Is honestly glad when others enjoy success or good fortune.

15.Has outgrown envy and jealousy.

16.Is open-minded enough to listen thoughtfully to the opinions of others.

17.Is not a chronic 'faultfinder'.

18.Plans things in advance rather than trusting to the inspiration of the moment.

JanG

Thanks Jan.

I was looking for some kind of new philosophy after leaving jws (and, it looks like, the bible). But this is a great concise code of ethics for a while!

Patio