You're right Beryl, it isn't fair, nor is it logical. (But then again, show me something in the bible that
is logical!)
Another thing that always bothered me is along the lines of what you mentioned about a person's "heart condition". JWs go on and on about how so and so had the right heart condition and accepted the "truth". For some reason though, after baptism, so and so is repeatedly warned not to trust his heart, as it is treacherous. So, it's trust your heart if you agree with us, but don't trust it if you don't. Makes perfect sense, doesn't it?