My advice (of course) was to skip the meeting entirely
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EXCELLENT PLEASE FOLKS -
do not meet with the Cheese Cracker Men YOU WILL LOSE- if you are not ready to tell them what you think then avoid them THEY CAN'T FORCE YOU TO MEET if you have something else to do
once on their terf, it is very hard to control things- i know i used to sit across the table from apostates and folks trying to slid by and if the elders are sharp they will roast you- and there is no reason to subject yourself to Cheese Cracker Men
unless they are bringing some wine with that cheese and cracker