How does one recover from being shunned?My family is shunning me. So is everyone I grew up with since I was raised in the bOrg.How does one go about recovering from being shunned by his family? Is is possible for me to just let it go and move on?I don't want to be "at peace" with my family. I have been patient with them for over four years. Constantly reaching out to them, letting them know that they still have a son who loves them. Quite frankly, I sick of it and am now pissed at my family.Instead of trying to think of ways to help them, I find that I'm now obsessed with finding ways to hurt them as much as possible.I did a search for books at Amazon.com using the key words "recover(y) shun(ning)". All I got back was a handful of fictional books.I did a search on Google with the same key words. All I got were stories of how people were shunned... but nothing about recovery.Am I going to have to go to a therapist? If so what kind? What should I look for in qualifications? I don't want to go to someone and have explain everything to him/her.* Of the hating my family now and wanting to hurt them class *