Big Tex I have to humbly disagree with you about the caller ID bit and avoidance. Believe me that is not a pleasant life to live- don't hide from any issue you face in life- bad idea. Be an adult and face the issues straight on. Take your stand as you see fit and be honest with yourself, your children and all others-
Two wrongs do not make a right- time goes by and one day, sooner than you think, your child will be grown and you do not want to have to explain why you ran and hid from a issue- bad example for your child...
Sorry Big Tex- my children are grown and it seems only yesterday that they were babies. I am glad for the sacrifices I took years ago- I reap the blessings today- likewise I regret not taking stronger stands and sacrifices on other things and I also live with the results of those bad desicions today. I do not have to see my children every day or every week or every month to love them- I just have to always be there for them, be honest with myself and them and set an example of honesty and intergrety for them and they do recognize this as they mature.