I've never blamed my juu experiance for not crying. I'm more inclined to think our whole western society makes it a no-no for men to show their emotions. I've always cried inside, just never let the world know it. Not till I participated in several communications workshops have I been able to really show on my skin what is going on inside. In my business circles, being honest about your feelings is a sign of weakness or at least not being "emotionally stable" when in fact its the stoics I've come to distrust.
carmel