flower,
My husband and I were just discussing that dilemna recently. We still haven't come up with a solution. But I'm thinking of asking my childhood friend to raise my kids, should anything happen to both of us. Oddly enough this friend of mine was raised a witness, her mom was a pioneer. When we were in high school her mom stopped going to meetings and da'd herself. At the time I thought how horrible that was, but now of course...... My friend and her husband have been married for 18 years and have two sons who they do an excellant job of raising. I know that it will really piss our families off if we tell them what our plans are, so I'm probably not going to tell them, just let them deal with it if it were to happen. I know that's a copout, but I just don't think I could deal with the backlash.
Shimmer
Maybe being oneself is alway an acquired taste.-----PATRICIA HAMPL