Celtic	Re: The victim
	I had a feeling you were going to post about this Gravedancer from your escapades in Chat earlier. The point you didn't get my friend, is this. That there was no talk of victimisation then, you missed the point entirely, through not listening to what was really being said. Sad but true. Now, I'm not attacking you, just letting you know. The other point is that what you say above is true, of course it is, however, sometimes, individuals do not have the internal strength to just keep going. This does not mean that they see themselves solely with a negative image, sometimes you got to learn to know when and how to relax a situation, to allow a person to be. It had nothing to do with victimisation in the slightest. Perhaps this might help you next time before delving in head first to a subject matter which to one poster here was very sensitive material. I hope you take the advice you are giving out, just as I too have to dole out to myself, that teaching that I share with others in recovery. Look after yourself. Mark
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