Try fading gradually. First miss a meeting here and there then stop going to book studies once your family stops bugging you. Then miss more and more, TMS/SM's then stop altogether while missing a few Sunday meetings first leave after the PT then stop going. within a year you'll be done with it all. I haven't been to a meeting in over a year now and it's great. Best thing I ever did. Once in a while someone stops by while out on a Saturday and tells me they miss me. I thank them, they move on and that's it. LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT!
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