This makes me reflect on my marriage. The wife was looking for a "spiritual" man.
I was looking for a positive outgoing personality. We are still together because we
have fit well together, but my awakening and her remaining under the spell puts a
strain on things.
That made me think about the qualities she was looking for. A good number of
"spiritual" ones in the JW organization actually do their research. That causes them
to examine their own religion often. So the gung-ho ones often come out faster than
the "weak" JW's. Like Bethelites discover problems before publishers. Pioneers
get a better idea of the lack of love sooner than the publishers. Elders are more aware
of the doctrinal changes than the publishers.
Just some stray thoughts caused by reading this thread.