I thank you all for your suggestions, I've read all and really appreciate what you're all saying.
To onthewayout and Scottsman... I've tried many things and nothing works, this is the harshest letter I've sent to him yet. My letters to the family were much worse. Many of my letters have been answered, all of them without one question raised being answered. He won't speak to me period. Showing up with anything isn't going to stop the shunning. Come on guys look at what you're saying, don't you guys have family in the lie?
To onthewayout and Scottsman... I've tried many things and nothing works, this is the harshest letter I've sent to him yet. My letters to the family were much worse. Many of my letters have been answered, all of them without one question raised being answered. He won't speak to me period. Showing up with anything isn't going to stop the shunning. Come on guys look at what you're saying, don't you guys have family in the lie?