You're the better man.
I tend to agree with everything Scotsman says. You probably won't get any response at all to
this letter. A postcard that says, "I am there for you no matter what you believe." would be
far better.
If this is something you must send, then don't defend it to us or take a poll, just send it. If you
truly want some results, then don't send this letter. That's my opinion.