I think if you have your family with you and even some friends that is good and you have already realized what many here hope for. Perhaps think about counting your blessings and begin fading away.
Staying active to help others increases your chances of being disfellowshipped, which makes it extremely difficult to help anyone.
One you realize the scam, eventually pretending by attending meetings drives you crazy. Field service becomes next to impossible. Hopefully you realize the importance of striking a balance between moving on and helping others.
There are no glorious ways of exiting this cult. Any hopes of 'beating the system' will be dashed to pieces if you play the game long enough. As long as you understand that.
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