I think that it is truly amazing what can happen when friends sit down and actually speak truthfully and from the heart as friends are supposed to do. If this weekend you spoke of had not happened how many would still be sitting in their uncomfortable lives wondering?? I lost a great friend this way because she was afraid to turn to me and I was the same. Her husband was an elder of the worst kind!They have since divorced and he will not give me any info on her to me as I am "labeled"! Yea, I could give him a few labels! So, she probably is sitting there thinking she has lost a friend and that I am being judgemental towards her, she left her husband for another man, honestly I think it was the best thing she could do and I hope she is happy now. It just goes to show you OPEN UP I wish I had. Congratulations jst2laws for keeping friends and helping to set them free!