COGNAC- I am sorry you are going through this stress. We have all been here, many of us. The reason your family cannot understand what you are seeing so plainly in your mind, is because they, the witnesses are under , " cult mind control". They are so mind controlled on what to think, and how to view things from only ONE way, they have no critical thinking ability to to see things from different angles or " outside the box" so to speak. The governing body dictates to them how to view the information from their own publications , so they only have the one source. It limits them mentally to think clearly.
So, be patient , you are frustrated because you are seeing the real " truth " about things and the scales are falling from your eyes. Maybe some of them will see it in time. Just hang out here sis, and you will get lots of fine people encouraging you , and being a true friend to you. Please feel free to PM my wife and me if you need to vent. Hang in there sis! Peace out, Mr. Flipper