I am what you would call a "lasped" Jehovah's Witness. This is the only time you will hear from me. Please do not respond or write back, I simply will not answer. The statements made in this forum "Dating/Witnessing to a Lasped Jehovah's Witness" is full of lies and untruths. Especially this statement --
Behind the scenes (without the man knowing it), the woman has already talked to someone to start a Bible study with the man they are involved with, so that the congregation will assume that "both" in this relationship will become JWs. This puts on a "good appearance" to the congregation and eases the heat of discipline she will be facing when going back to the Kingdom Hall to get reinstated. This is a blatant lie. Whether or not the woman receives discipline has nothing to do with whomever she is dating, whether he becomes a JW or not. It is a lie within in itself. Why would the congregation assume that both will become JWs if the woman is already a JW. Grow up. The people who are running this site are immature hate mongers, for whatever their reasons. I have been gone from the Kingdom Hall for 1.5 years because I was dating someone who was not a JW, by my own choice and not because of any other reason. I am also returning to my Kingdom Hall, without the man, by my own choice. And no one has gone behind anyone's back or done anything without anyone knowing. To the young man who asked the original question. You need to make an informed decision. Study with the girl's father. That is how you will learn the truth. And that is how you will find out what is best for you, not what someone else tells you, and especially from people who are filled with hatred. Only you can know what is best for you. Then you can decide whether or not you will continue. A builder cannot build a house with the knowledge to do so, and you cannot make this decision until you learn all the facts. There are some who will say that I am trying to coerce you into becoming a JW. I am not; I am only asking you to get the facts before you decide. And listen to yourself to decide what is best for you.