Dear Family,
Essentially you are being held hostage by this action. If it's any comfort, you are not alone, this scenario has happened many times over (my family included) and continues on.
The Achillies heal of the organization is that it is ALL voluntary enforcement; one volunteers to shun another. I look forward to the day when enough individuals say "ENOUGH!" When you see your daughter (or any "Witnesess" for that matter.), BREAK THE SILENCE! Show them that they have NO control over you! Christ died to set mankind FREE, if you are truly Christian let NO ONE bring you under bondage again!
"Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage." Gal 5:1
Peace to you,
John