Navco....I'd like to respond to what you have writtten but I have no idea what you just said. ANYWAY....I am just a dumb country boy and I really hesitate to stick my neck too far out there but my daughter was disfellowshipped several months ago. I love her more than life and would NEVER shun her under any circumstances. She told me she was blown away by the fact that her parents stood by her and defended her dignity and person. She has been reinstated and I guess that I (or we, her parents) have done too good a job of indoctrinating her into JW ways. She feels that she deserved whatever she got. I am trying to get us all into counseling. I do not know what else to do.