How about looking at the conventions and assemblies like everyone else? Just make sure you get a man that is working, not looking for a piece of tail. That was my dad's advice. Fat lot of good that did me, but oh well. You may get luckier. Oh, and make sure he loves Jehovah more than you.
If you don't find someone, let me know. I have a friend that sells for an adult product company. I can hook you up.
Good luck.
momz