I wish you all the luck, you will need it. May will be my 3rd year anniversary to my inactive JW hubby. Even though he is inactive, the indoctrination runs deep for years. Tread very lightly, you will have to. I'm very open minded, which is probably what got me in this situation in the first place. My husband is worth the struggle, but, I would never want a family member to go through the fear of losing their loved one on a daily basis.
PLEASE sit down, talk it out, and ask him to be blatently honest as to what your relationship would truly be after marriage.
DO NOT BECOME YET ANOTHER SLAVE TO THIS CULT!!!!!
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