Hi Still in 
,
I am a xJW married to a JW wife (14 years) and some days it seems like we will make it and some days it doesn't...
That being said, my main concern is that this guy is a liar... he's not even an honest JW. If he lies to his family, lies to his friends, lies to his religion, and lies to you (yes he lies to you), how can you trust him. And according to official JW belief, he doesn't stand a chance to get to paradise since they teach that any who commit fornication are destined for the lake of fire... not paradise on earth.
Please wake up and see this guy for the pathological liar that he is.
You may be 
now but that's better than being with a bunch of kids and more problems to boot.
IMHO