LindaLu and fiveangels:
The Jehovah's Witnesses religion demands exclusive loyalty from its members. If your boyfriends become committed members, their loyalties will be divided. You see, JWs are taught that it's a sin to marry another non-JW. There will be consequences for them in the congregation if they continue their relationships with you. They will eventually have to choose between continuing their relationships with you and becoming members in good standing in the congregation. If they choose their relationship with you over the religion, there's hope. If they don't, you are in for some tough times. They will be allowed to remain members of the church even if they continue to be with you, but they will be constantly looked down upon. Expect pressure to convert to their religion. The congregation will view you as a mistake that needs to be remedied. There are several non-JW members of this forum married to JWs who will be able to share their stories with you. Think long and hard about what to do next. Welcome to the forum.