nilfun	Re: You Can't Get It Back
	Every so often we get people saying the classic, "It's in the past, now it's up to you to take action, get over it..." *nods* Yes, I think that these are unnecessary words also.  Once you've found a trustworthy person(s) to be witness to the pain of childhood (in whatever degree that was)  and they have the ability to suspend judgment while you go through the memories and tell your story -- having a listener -- I think *that* is one of the great catalysts for change -- to simply tell a person to "get over it" -- means nothing & does nothing for them.  The question of "ok, I was hurt -- so NOW what?" will present itself eventually.
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