MemberPost
Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Scully on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Billygoat on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by vitty on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by blondie on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by xjwms on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by luna2 on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by JH on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by caligirl on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Lady Lee on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Billygoat on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Lady Lee on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Big Dog on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Billygoat on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Big Dog on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by lonelysheep on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Kaylen on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Momofmany on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by jt stumbler on

ScullyRe: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together?


I think too many people think the "uncomfortableness" or "boringness" of eating dinner together, could be doing themselves and their families a disservice.  If it's uncomfortable, get over it.  Good things aren't always comfortable.  But they become comfortable in time with practice.  If it's boring, perhaps it's because the common ground isn't established to become interesting.  How is that fixed by continuing to not talk?

When Mr Scully and I first got married we had nice IKEA table that was comfortable for seating 4 adults.  It was very serviceable even when we had 3 small children.  Unfortunately, as the children grew (as they are apt to do) the table wasn't comfortable for all of us to sit together for meals, and we got out of the habit of eating together.  It was something that we ALL missed because we never got a chance to all of us sit down and discuss the day and upcoming plans and try to make some arrangements so we could accommodate everyone's wishes - and that was very stressful, even moreso than having a sit-down dinner every night.

About a year ago, we decided it was time to upgrade the table.  The new one seats 6-8 comfortably and has an extension feature that we can use when we have a big group of 10 or even 12.  At first, it was awkward starting conversations again, but we started playing board games and cards with the kids after dinner a couple of nights a week and that made a huge difference in everyone's comfort level and was a kind of conversation starter for those awkward moments.

That table and my crockpot were the best investments we've ever made in our family's well-being.
IP: NCiHJb2kWLhPPp2c

Re: Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Shania on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Finally-Free on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by daystar on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by banished1 on
Re: Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by defd on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Billygoat on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by jillbedford on
Re: Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by defd on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by greendawn on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Jez on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by bikerchic on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Effervescent on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Crumpet on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Special K on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Thirdson on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by prophecor on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Why Georgia on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by ICBehindtheCurtain on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by mrsjones5 on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by GentlyFeral on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by stillajwexelder on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Quentin on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Purza on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Cellist on
Re: Does Your Family Eat Dinner Together? by Special K on