Hi LL,
I went to your website, and found the bit about "Passivity". Certainly my background (needy parent figures etc) fits in with the suggested causes.
However, I did not find anything on overcoming passivity, which for me can become almost paralyzing. Its effects are also amplified by the years of WT control.
Has a section on overcoming this been posted, or should I get new glasses?
Apart from this I have to say how much I value your work, and your site is now on my favorites list. There is so much there which has already given me help.
HB