Well first off, let me wish you luck right now. You're going to need it. It doesn't sound like your folks are going to listen to you, if your dad is an elder and mom an elderette.
But you've got to give us something to go on....I mean, if you don't believe any more, what was it that opened your eyes? Having 5 points wouldn't matter if you don't care about them.....
Besides, all you really need is one point, if well developed.