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jeromeWhy do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?


First let me say this.

I have constantly been hearing of the legendary honesty/intergity of the Jehovah's Witness for some time now. I have also been informed that they are the happiest people on the entire earth.

My problem is this:

When a Jehovah's Witness comes to your door and you actually decide to give them a few moments of your time they never give the whole story as to what you would be getting involved with when you join the Watchtower.

Case in point. The last conversation that I had with a JW in feild service was a few weeks ago. While at my door I asked several point blank questions and they either directly lied to me about them or they purposely sidestepped the issues. Two topics that I brought up are as follows,

1) Did your Church predict that the World would end within the region of a few months past 1975?

It is important to note that the lady I asked this question was baptized in 1969! She expected me to believe that there was absolutely no shuch statement ever written in their magazines or at any talk or convention. I simply cannot believe that statement due to the fact that I have too much irrefutable evidence to the contrary.

I know that she was lying.

A second issue was,

2) Do you practise shunning people that have left your church by dissociation or being disfelloshipping.

She refused to give me a direct anwser to my question at first. So I had to ask a series of less significant questions inorder to get her to to reveal more information.

I asked her if you could asociate or even converse with a person who had been disfelloshipped and she replyed with this statement;

" Well just the other day a lady who came from another country visited my Kingdom Hall and she said she was disfelloshipped."

Now this was a statement made with one intention and one intenton alone, which was to decieve. For some reason though I wasent too surprised that she said this but I expected better of her though.

I replied with,

"So how long did you two ladies converse after the moment that she stated that she was disfelloshipped?"

Her reply was

"Well she aksed about the elders"

I persisted in asking

"How long did you talk to the lady after she stated thet she was disfelloshipped?"

She side stepped the question with this reply

"Well we have the elders who deal with those sorts of conversations."

The moral of the story is if I hadent known for a fact that the Jehovah's Witnesses are not allowed to associate or even speak to their disassociatted or disfelloshipped individuals that she would have convinced me that being labeled disfellshipped or disassociated was nothing but a trivial matter.

But the truth of the matter is that after you have been baptized as a Jehovah's Witness and you decide to lave the organisation or are disfelloshipped ( given the boot ) that you will most likely loose all your friends and family who remain Jehovah's Witnesses. Since you are incouraged not to associate with non-Witnesses you will have pratically no friends.

Levaing the organisation after you have ben baptized could destroy your entire life as you had known it. There is no error where that statement is concerned.

If I was ever in doubt that the Witnesses utilize decptive recruting tacktics the conversation I had with a mature Witness in feild service confirmed my information for good. I think that she would have realized forshure that I knew more about the Watchtower than the average house holder but that did not sway her to refrain from lying. Ifact I think that she saw me as an agent of satan which would havegiven her evenmore reason to le to me.

At this point I would like to pose a few questions to anyone wiling to anwser.

While you were a Witness were you informed about the usage of spritual warfare? If so then how often did you use it especially while in feild service?

It is because of matters like this that I truly believe that the Watchtower organisation is a menace to society. Since in my opinion most recruits would have no idea of what they are becoming involved with. They would not know that they would be expected to give up their past aquaintances, endure the 3 meetings a week, put up with any ostracism that they may recieve from the congragation, increase their chances of suffering from mential depression, pedal Watchtower literature on a regular basis, refuse life saving transfusions, and basically give up to question authority of the ones controlling your life. This is but a short list of what one is required to give up as a baptised Witness.

It just isnt fair for someone to have to get involved with an organisation shuch as the Watchtower without knowing the whole story.

It is a pity that the Witnesses themselves who have been involved with the organisation for several years dont even know the whole story themselves. Yet they presist in deciving house holders inorder to recruit them into the Watchtower.

This has to be the Ultimate irony.

jerome
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SatanusRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses tell so much lies?
It just isnt fair for someone to have to get involved with an organisation shuch as the Watchtower without knowing the whole story.
Exactly! The wt decieves, then brainwashes. To be fair, i state that brainwashing is used to an extent in other movements as well. Take the military, for example. Going through boot camp is a type of brainwashing. However, what makes it different, is that young people know ahead of time what they are getting into. Also, those that want can drop out without reprisals. Even the military is better than the wt.

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jeromeRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses tell so much lies?
SS

I would like to konw (if you wouldent mind) if you yourself actually had to lie to somebody while in feild service or to a study.

jerome
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LBRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
jerome I may have been guilty of some of that in as far as during a bible study I once tapdanced around the DFing issue. I told him that it was a loving provision that encouraged the person to straighten out his life. I honestly did believe that at the time though.

But then again today I'm angry about the lies told me during my bible study about being able to quit the society. No mention of being shunned was mentioned there, in fact I was told that it was a simple matter of filling out a form.

So the shoe is on the other foot these days isn't it?


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SatanusRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
I don't mind at all. I told the standard wt lies. I tried to argue that it was never proven that a jw died from lack of blood transfusion. I tried to show that all that was needed was a volume expander like saline solution, and that there were enough red cells to keep the jw alive if the volume was up. I argued that the body continuoussly prduces red cells.

I argued that when john1:1 says that jesus was god, it didn't really mean what it said.

I argued that when jesus said that he would raise his body that they killed, back up after three days, that he didn't really mean his physical body.

I argued that when somebody was dfd, it was their own fault for deliberately doing something like smoking, sex, disagreeing w the wt.

I remember preaching to the other kids in school that the end would come in 1975, or there abouts. I remember someone saying to me that he would like to talk to me in 1976, to show me i was wrong.

I hardly ever was able to live a perfect jw life. Yet i preached to others that they should become jws. This was especially so when i was in my teens. Back then i used to drink and sometimes attempt to get to know non-jw girls. For a while i smoked. Masterbation was something i was guilty of all the time, except for about 5 yrs, during which time i managed to stop, but i develped an ulcer.

I was depressed most of the time. Yet we were told that we were the happiest people on earth. I was on antidepressant meds twice.

Really, i think i am more honest now. I have more integrity now. That means i'm more together. I know more what i am, and can accept what i am. I don't have to pretend. I don't need to deny what i am. That's integrity. When i look back at my life as a jw, it was a sad pantomime. But that's okay, because it was part of growing.

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jeromeRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
attempt to get to know the non-jw girls
ROTFLMFAO

Ah I dont really know what to say about the other stuff like being depressed most of the time and all. But suffice it to say i'm glad that your past that stage in your life.

That was a nice little story though. Its adarn shame that more people who are studying with the JWs dont hear more stories like that.

thakns

jerome
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larcRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
Jerome,

Yes, I was taught to use tact. That meant being as evasive as possible so as not to answer a question, but appear that you did. After awile, that skill becomes second nature.

We also engaged in role plays in the service meeting, where we practiced how to over come objections. These were sessions where we practiced these evasive tactics.
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jeromeRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
So thats why Yadirf never seems to be able to anwser a direct question.


jerome
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Reborn2002Re: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
LOL @ jerome.

Very observant assessment.

It is not religious persecution for an informed person to expose publicly a certain religion as being false, thus allowing persons to see the difference between false religion and true religion.
WT 11/15/1963 page 688 paragraph 3
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neyankRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
Hi jerome,

Why do they lie?

Because they really don't think of it as lying.
It's all part of spiritual warfare.

You said, "It is a pity that the Witnesses themselves who have been involved with the organisation for several years dont even know the whole story themselves. Yet they presist in deciving house holders inorder to recruit them into the Watchtower."

How true.
When I was involved with them, I had no idea about their TRUE past.
I only knew what I was told about them, by them.
And the info I was fed was exactly the same info I supplied at the doors.

Plus the fact that if the real truth was told to the posible recruits,
do you think they would gain new members?

Poison tastes better when it's sugar coated.

neyank
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jeromeRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
How often do they talk about this Theocratic War Stragety at meetings?

The same lady came back with her daughter the next sunday.

At the end of that conversation I asked her point blank if she knew what theocratic war stragety was but instead of anwsering the question she just laughed. And her daughter did the same.

But even after revealing all that I knew I still got a third return visit. This one was only for a few minuted though. She (the daughter) came back last sunday for some information about the UN scandal.
She read the print outs I gave her and started to laugh half way through.
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jeromeRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
Sorry I posted the same thing twice.
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SixofNineRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
Jerome, I'm curious, you said you are from a 3rd world country, no? If so, are the people calling on you native to your country, or missionaries? You may have already givin these details, but if so I missed them. Thanks.
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jeromeRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
Well I said it is a third world i.e developing nation but not exactly like afganistan where people are too poor to go to school or anything.

I just mean that the Witnesses are everywhere. I dont think that any of them are missionaries but they are permanent residents. Alot of them come around. Like every month and a half I see them. Tha in my opnion is way too often. And I rearly ever hear anything detailed about them, only people just call them a cult but have no idea why. But that is going to change. The internet is here to stay.

Because my counry isnt as developed as America you would expect the information resources to be limited on the most basic level. But everything is changing and people are becomng wise to the WT and Mormon cult. The Mormons are missionaies though because you can tel that they dont come from around here. But I think that people would consider them to weird to take them seriously. And try arging wih a true Christian believer who is a trinitarian. That is why they cant really make too much ground because they believe that jesus wasnt God.

Everyone I know seems to be using the internet whether it be for porn or research or chaton msn. So I would expect the number of witnesses to be reduced or stagnate very soon saying that you can find out about them wiht the click of a mouse.

It is important to note that just because a country is third world dosent necessarily mean that the people there are uneducated or cant afford expensive cars or have a television in every room. Its just means that they are not as advanced as countries like the G-7.

But anyways so far I am positive that none of the people that I warned about the witnesses will every become involved with the cult. I have innoculated all of my friends and immediate family. They know what to expect from them. So when they lie to any ofmy friends they will be shooting themselves in the foot.

My gf on the other hand...

She is a case.

Its easier to talk to her about Watchtower being a cult than it is with a older more indoctrinated witness. But she gives me the same standard WT preprogramed responces that you would expect from a witness.

I have gotten her to accept the fact thet I think that the Watchtower is a cult and I will never become a Witness. And even gotten her to touch an apostate book! Thats gotta count for something. But I think her mother and brother will not be that tolerant.

So that is why I ask questions and lurk on this messageboard especially when I have exams comming up. I hope spending soooo much time on this board dosent affect my studies too much.

So thats it.

As James once told me

I am the ultimate Witness nightmare.

An informed non-witness!

jerome
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larcRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
I think the reason that the person laughed half way through the UN material, is because reading it made her very nervous, and she couldn't give an intelligent reply to what you showed her.
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jeromeRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
larc your right.

But you have to wonder though, what will she do with this information?

I only bring up things that the witnesses cannot disprove.
The beauty of the UN scandal is that th Watchtower has NO REASONABLE excuse. It is blatantly hypocritical.

The Watchtower cannot discredit the guardian because it has quoted from them many times. It cannot launch a preemptive stike because they dont want any witnesses to find out about it in the first place.

What happens when you break down the barrier of information controll?

People start to ask questions.

What happens when people start to ask questions and get the shaft?

They start to doubt and ask more questions.

Then start the long road to recovery.

I just cant imagine why they would shoot themselves in their foot like that.

jerome
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Reborn2002Re: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
jerome-

You said:

The beauty of the UN scandal is that th Watchtower has NO REASONABLE excuse. It is blatantly hypocritical.

The Watchtower cannot discredit the guardian because it has quoted from them many times. It cannot launch a preemptive stike because they dont want any witnesses to find out about it in the first place.
I do not believe I have ever heard this so eloquently phrased.

I can say personally I have helped 2 "born and raised" JW make an exit using the UN scandal as the initial conversation piece.

It may not appear so blatantly to the naked eye yet, but the WTS is in serious trouble. The older generation unwilling to stare reality in the face are dying off, and the young breed are exiting handfuls at a time.

It is not religious persecution for an informed person to expose publicly a certain religion as being false, thus allowing persons to see the difference between false religion and true religion.
WT 11/15/1963 page 688 paragraph 3
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jeromeRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
Reborn
How long did it take for them to make the big step and start asking questions?
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Reborn2002Re: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
Both were childhood friends from my former congregation who remained JW in name, and although committing fornication and every other young adult sin... still believed the JW doctrine. Both ironically are sons of current elders.

The most important point is they were open to possibilities.

Once I showed them the UN scandal and gave them the documents in hand.. then from there proceeded with old bound volumes and contradictions on organ transplants, shunning, rape, blood, generation, Russell gravesite, etc... the floodgates were opened and they DA very quickly.

My case is only one of many. Silently and unadmittingly, the numbers are waning and fast.

The "15 minute" arrangement and the new procedure of the PO collecting time slips instead of the field service box are testament to this.

The WTBTS is desperate not to report decreases, especially in the country where the "WORLD HEADQUARTERS" of "GODS ONLY TRUE ORGANIZATION" is located.

To the WT official who most likely monitors this site, because you HAVE to have knowledge of your opponent in order to survive... you are going down. Each individual can make a difference, and I have encouraged the people I helped make an exit to try with all their might to help someone they know to make an exit. The numbers multiply.

The WTS will be radically changed to mainstream or nonexistent in my lifetime. With so many screw-ups so readily available in documentation to prove this.. they have no choice.


It is not religious persecution for an informed person to expose publicly a certain religion as being false, thus allowing persons to see the difference between false religion and true religion.
WT 11/15/1963 page 688 paragraph 3
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siegswifeRe: Why do Jehovah's Witnesses lie to recruits?
I don't know that I ever outright lied to anyone when I was a Witness, but I know that I evaded issues. If I remember correctly, (it was a long time ago) I was holding onto the hope that everything that I didn't have an explanation for would come to light one day. I didn't really feel that I was being deceptive, I just felt like it wasn't clearly understood. When I did get to the point that I didn't believe what they believed, I left.
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