One of the problems I observed with making 20-something-year-olds elders is that they like to divulge
confidential information to their young wives who, in turn, like to gossip to her friends about the private stuff
that went on in a JC or shepherding call her husband was involved in. I saw this with my own two eyes and
heard stuff with my own two ears back in the day. (Young wives have their own methods for getting hubby to spill the beans to them.)