I'm not really an oral sex kinda guy but if the borg said told my wife that because I was inactive she couldn't have sex with me I'd be pissed. I know they would never do that but I know some guys who have said that is all they will do for them. So in effect they are taking away their sex life. I know in Bethel they had a book for bethelites that were bringing brides in to bethel about sex and I can imagine what that had to say.
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