Great letter, Nina. It mirrors many points I have hammered into many an elder about helping others. Very to the point, logical but with real feeling. Some elders will squirm at first but then consider the source as less spiritual than them, a woman, and not qualified to correct them. Some people in the congregation will nod their heads in agreement but do nothing, but some will see this as the final straw and may start leaving mentally if not literally.Lack of love is the reason I have left. I have many past and current events to look to for proof. And if I had stayed, there would be even more.Actions speak louder than words.Blondie
