The only time the elders visited me and my wife, it was a couple of months after we stopped going. They knocked on the door when I was sitting on my living room couch, I could see through the side of the blinds that it was them, I just didn't answer the door. I think they called a couple of times but I have caller ID and I screen calls that are blocked so they never got ahold of me or my wife and they just stopped bothering us. As far as I know we aren't disfellowshipped or Dissasociated, nobody has told us anything. We've moved around so much that the only way they could find us now is if my wife's family gave them our address. If she does I just plan on ignoring them.