Lois reflects on the serious Bible command, `Get out of Babylon the Great,' the world empire of false religion. (Revelation 18:2, 4) She once belonged to the church where the wedding is to take place and knows that during the ceremony all present will be asked to share in religious acts, such as prayer, singing, or religious gestures. She is determined to have no part in that and does not want even to be there and be under pressure to break her integrity. Lois respects her husband and wants to cooperate with him, her Scriptural head; yet, she does not want to compromise her Scriptural principles.
This situation came up with a friend of Clyde's who attends meetings with his wife of 43 years--only this time it was a funeral. She read this WT article and decided to be like Lois and not attend. Clyde's friend is really ticked. I don't see how this is showing "respect" to her husband. He has shown her "respect" by attending the Kingdom Hall these last 43 years, but she won't attend the funeral of their friend because it's in a church.
The Watchtower continues to devise ways to break down marriages.